tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15450512.post7972481754582072961..comments2023-11-05T06:27:24.362-06:00Comments on A Small Group of Thoughtful, Committed Citizens: Get Out of my Space!!!!I Drink and I Know Things...http://www.blogger.com/profile/11608248895813409154noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15450512.post-66791202928869130462008-07-15T17:41:00.000-05:002008-07-15T17:41:00.000-05:00Funny, I'm wracking my brain trying to remember wh...Funny, I'm wracking my brain trying to remember what my pillow arrangement was when I was single. Was it one, was it two? I don't remember. I can see me throwing an extra off the bed because it was crowding me. "Hey you get offa my cloud."<BR/><BR/>I don't think I remember how to date either.Loretta_Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15519245587948576570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15450512.post-9116404027375867522008-07-03T20:49:00.000-05:002008-07-03T20:49:00.000-05:00O crap... If 3 pillows means Molly wants a threes...O crap... If 3 pillows means Molly wants a threesome what do my five pillows say about single me? Orgy??!! <BR/><BR/>Anyways sweets, you will the things you need to do in your own time and own way. One pillow or two or maybe date or not.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15450512.post-26613078541516186972008-07-03T20:36:00.000-05:002008-07-03T20:36:00.000-05:00Molly, it means you want a threesome! ;)I think a ...Molly, it means you want a threesome! ;)<BR/><BR/>I think a bed with one pillow looks lonely. We have 5 pillows on our bed and dh and I both sleep with 2. The 5th pillow could mean lots of things but it's mostly there so my head doesn't fall with a clunk onto the mattress. And we can meet in the middle when the mood strikes.<BR/><BR/>Or it could be for the dog who also sleeps with us.Lexyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11591979314402318387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15450512.post-53606076302691683292008-07-03T19:28:00.000-05:002008-07-03T19:28:00.000-05:00I don't see a single thing wrong with either of th...I don't see a single thing wrong with either of the two decisions you made, either about the pillow or the date. If it's not the right time for you to add these things to your life, it's not the right time.<BR/><BR/>And I think Jill's jogging analogy is brilliant.Lisa :-]https://www.blogger.com/profile/02237889098638895390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15450512.post-23969276157438583822008-07-03T14:37:00.000-05:002008-07-03T14:37:00.000-05:00Hmm. I wonder what it says about me that I (a sing...Hmm. I wonder what it says about me that I (a single woman) have three pillows on my bed?Mollie F.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03236661501694533797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15450512.post-15709425339624444352008-07-03T09:56:00.000-05:002008-07-03T09:56:00.000-05:00Hm. That's interesting - when I was single I had ...Hm. That's interesting - when I was single I had 2 pillows on the bed. Not because the second pillow was for anyone else, but because it allowed me to sprawl across the entire bed without waking up with a crick in my neck, realizing I was on the empty side of the bed, and scrabbling for my pillow.<BR/><BR/>That second pillow was for ME, dammit.<BR/><BR/>Connection and loss of autonomy are most definitely NOT the same thing. But there are also times when you just can't have a thing in your life. Let me posit a possibly dumb example: jogging is a good thing for me. It gets me out of my house, out of my head, burns calories, makes me stronger, etc...<BR/><BR/>But when I'm injured, it's NOT a good thing for me. It will only make me more injured to push it. So I wait until I am healed, and then head out - and not at the speed or distance I did before I injured myself: I have to be gentle with myself.<BR/><BR/>Hm. Maybe that's not such a bad analogy after all.<BR/><BR/>Be gentle with yourself, dearest.jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13752779296599153304noreply@blogger.com